I thought that this was all solved. May 20th was to be the date of the shower my mother wants to throw with my sister and SIL. It was a bit odd that it will be our anniversary, but not a big deal because we wouldn’t do anything until that evening anyway.
Looks like that day will have to be scrapped. My uncles are planning an 85th birthday party for my grandmother. This really is important, so please don’t think that I’m against it. I want to go and with everything she’s been through lately, it would be nice to have a celebration.
I’m just so flippin’ frustrated that we cannot find one date in 3 months to have this damn shower! I’m to the point where I just want to skip it. My mother has come to every other shower that was thrown for me, and my sister and SIL came to the blessingway. So it’s not like they haven’t done anything or been supportive. Instead, I just feel that this has been on the back burner and not important enough foor them to plan. I do understand that both my sis and SIL have new babies and their time is very limited. But this is beginning to be more hurtful than what it’s worth.
My aunt, who I happened to tell the date to because she has a very busy schedule, thinks we can work around it. The time we had discussed for my shower was 1 and grandma’s party would be at 2. Maybe we can change the time of the shower, but I don’t want people to feel rushed. This will be a very special day for my grandmother.
That’s… just… maddening. I am not at all surprised that you are are tempted to bag the whole thing. I do hope that it works out on the next try, though, and that it winds up being a nice experience in the end.
My mom and sister decided to have it on the 19th. That works for me, but I don’t think I can handle another rescheduling. So hopefully this is it.
That’s… just… maddening. I am not at all surprised that you are are tempted to bag the whole thing. I do hope that it works out on the next try, though, and that it winds up being a nice experience in the end.
My mom and sister decided to have it on the 19th. That works for me, but I don’t think I can handle another rescheduling. So hopefully this is it.